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Let’s examine something about the opener. Now it doesn’t matter what you say at really. Let me say this again it doesn’t matter what you say. The first things you say she will not even remember. I have asked a lot of woman, what was the first thing your boyfriend said to you when you met. I asked a lot of my long term relationships ex’s what’s the first thing I said to you. None of them really remembered. BUT they did remember a few things about that encounter.
1. My facial expression
2. How I acted
3. What I was wearing
4. How I smelled
5. How I approached her
6. HER FIRST OPINION
Let’s break this down now into pieces so we can tackle this, are you ready guys. Remember if your not go give up now. No I’m kidding start rereading everything and getting a better handle on the previous material and go out and get a few experiences for yourself, so you can see why I say what I say and why this is going to be important for you. Now these are not in any particular order.
Your facial expression: SMILE. Yes there are cases where you don’t smile but 99% of the time you want to smile. So just assume to smile. I will cover non smiling cases in a later date. Now why smile. I covered this in an earlier blog but I’ll cover it again. Especially if you are a bigger man the first things that are going to go through a woman’s mind is oh my God with a small amount of fear. You want to neutralize this and then associate you with a calm good nice person. Not a nice guy but a nice person. You also want to give the vibe your not a creaper. So don’t smile like a pervert give a genuine warm smile. Also think about when you meet people for the first time. When you meet someone who doesn’t smile isn’t there a little bit of weirdness going on. Keeping eye contact is also very important to. Don’t stare but keep eye contact.
How you act: Your mannerisms, your walk, your stance your body language. Depending where and how you approach depends on your body language. This is a whole blog article in itself. So we will break it down a bit. Stand tall, don’t hunch, don’t peck, keep your shoulders back. Other such things don’t over use your hands and don’t under use your hands. You need to see what works for you. I use a lot of hands when I talk and I can keep it fine some cant. Also do you give off the creepy vibe or do you give off the fun vibe. This is actually telegraphed by how your thinking. If the only thing on your mind is how you want to screw her it will show. How do you kino and how you kino is important. Did you act nervous… No giving off nervous vibes give off the air, remember you are an alpha male. You are lucky you get to share in the woman’s beauty and she is lucky she gets to converse with a real alpha male. So why should you be nervous.
What you are wearing. DON’T DRESS LIKE CRAP. Well you can but it will make it much more difficult. I don’t say you need to peacock but look nice. They will remember it. I had an ex who remembered the very loud shirt all throughout our relationship and we used to joke about it. So dress to impress or peacock if you choose. Example when I go out now depending where I go. I have a muscular build so I tend to do a cross necklace silver, a loud tighter shirt. Black jeans Black dress shoes. Other times I’ll wear 4 inch platform boots if the area is appropriate to it. I am experimenting with hats. Most of the time though in all honesety I wear black jeans and a PLAIN colored shirt.
How you smell: this one is very simple. Take showers and wear cologne. Not that crappy axe shit either. Its to strong and to powerful. Go to walmart and smell the colognes there who care if there name brand. Smell for a nice smelling one that you like. Now here is how you apply it. One spray to each wrist and rub it together. One spray on the back of the neck. The wrist will allow it to mix with your own natural smell.
How you approach: First off always approach on an angle. Be sure she sees you unless you are doing an opener where you need to gain her attention. 45 degrees is best. If she is standing when you approach her and after your first statement take a slight step back. It will defuse the creep factor. Best way to do it. If you go direct one full step back. If you are approaching where you need to gain her attention. Her triceps or her elbow gently touch with a finger. DO NOT GRAB.
Her first opinion: This is simple all of these will convey her first opinion, which is extremely important. It can when your first beginning make or break you. As you get better not as important but its still even more important.
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