I remember a conversation i had with a girl a couple of weeks back and as usual, i got onto the topic of attraction and i asked her what it is that makes her attracted to a guy. She turned round and said it was a guys personality that made her attracted to him.....i literally burst into laughter when she said that! I dont know why i laughed so hard it just made me really really laugh. The reason why i laughed though (and i told her this) is that it is not a personality that always attracts us to other people. The one thing that will always attract you to another person is.....how they make you feel.
The girl i was talking to instantly agreed with me once i started explaining it, then i got her to feel loads of positive emotions...and now she wont leave me alone. Nearly every girl i meet knows barely anything about me....seriously....i focus on them and generating positive emotions when i speak to them. Obviously i let them in to my life after a while. My friends are surprised when i tell them how the girl knows little things about me but is head over heals for me. Its simple....we are drawn to things that stimulate emotions....funny films....crazy roller coasters....nice food....girls who are easy (i genuinely believe that men have a genetic impulse to want to sleep with girls who are easy due to higher chances of replicating).
Remember this the next time you fall for a girl....ask yourself....do i want her? or do i want the feeling she makes me feel? The easy way to figure this out is to ask yourself what you know about her and whether that draws you to her. If it doesnt then you know it was just how she made you feel that got you drawn to her. Maybe she played hard to get and didnt return your calls or messages. Her absense increased your infatuation for her. So obviously you didnt like her but...how she made you feel. If this happens to you then simply walk away....there are plenty more women out there who can make you feel the same feeling.
Sam
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