FINDING THE ZONE The arena of the game is very seductive, it is where we battle in single combat against ourselves. It is a contest of champions: where empires hang in the balance and, once you enter the arena you decide whether to stand by and watch or be involved in the action - where you can emerge a god- or the vanquished , so it is very understandable why it creates a great deal of anxiety. Your zone refers to a place where you are able to perform at your best , sometimes refered to a state but for this purpose I prefer zone because it gives you a destination to reach. The elite PUA’s always try to preform at this level but a lot of people find it hard to get there mentally and when they’re their to retain focus. So I will give you some pointers for getting into your zone and staying there. There are four basic section to attaining your zone and each person finds their own path there differently but the basics are the same: Assesment, Preparation , Conduct and Implementation. MOTIVATION and FOCUS To reach your goal your motivation must be pure, you have to visualize the final outcome and decide for yourself. Do I really want this? To succeed at anything, you must work hard, be highly motivated ,stay consistent and have a solid focus on your goal. The most powerful motivation is intrinsic - being or relating to a semiconductor in which the concentration of charge carriers is characteristic of the material itself instead of the content of any impurities it contains and comes from within, formed from the love of what you are doing. To keep you motivation focussed it is important that your target goals are yours , not your friends, your family or anyone else’s . It has to be what you want most of all with no other outside influence. Realise that when your motivation drops and your relationship with playing the game drifts, you cause turbulence within. Your self esteem and your energy deminishes slowly at first, then plumets with increasing speed. This is the quicksand effect and nearly impossible to come back from but it can be done and this I will talk about later. To stay in the zone it is important to keep your motivation and focus pure that is why it is very important not to be a power drinker this attitude is for when you are away from the publics eye with your mates. If you have to drink , do it in moderation although this won’t impress your mates it does wonders for raising your social levels and they are important. CONFIDENCE To reach your zone your confidence level must be at it’s highest. To do this you have to be prepared and be certain you have done what is required to reach your goal. Do you look your best? Is your home base prepared? Have you decided how you are going to play the game?Where are you going? how are you getting their? If you are using props are they ready to go?Have you researched your hunting ground?Have you got sufficent funds with backup put away in a safe place? Are you flying solo or have you got a wingman or woman?Did you call them to make sure they are ready? Make a check list and cross off each one as its completed. All this helps, to be sure that you are ready to party and have a stress free fun time. Because when you are having fun the confidence will flow. It is always important to have your confidence overflowing, This makes your aura glow giving off a positive outlook and in turns affect the people you come in contact with. These positive interactions work to increase the flow of confidence working in a never ending circle. It is most important that you are as prepared as possible so as to keep this exchange and flow in continual motion. How would you feel if someone came up to you before you even reach your destination and tell you how good you look? Instantly your walking on air and feel like you own the world. VISUALISATION and RELAXATION This is when you sit back and see in your mind how it will happen be positive sit back and put on your favorite music , picture your perfect woman standing there looking you up and down .She walks up to you and you say the perfect opener, she smiles and replies. Then you continue sweeping her off her feet making a connection , while your talking you pause briefly to touch her hand or push back that piece of hair that fell accross her face and she again smiles at you her eyes telling you your the greatest thing that ever happened to her . Asking about her life you show honest interest and tell her small pieces about yourself. Everything goes perfect. Do this a couple of times with different scenarios so you are prepared for anything that might happen then sit back and think happy thoughts slowing down your breathing and relax allow your mind to drift into a positive plan. More than often the reason why people loss their zone is because they panic so by allowing time to relax this should be prevented also the airtime when you can’t think of anything to say, because you have gone over what you want to say before hand. Another good way of doing this is to use two people and write it down a scenario it could be a set that you completed or one you have dreamed of and then read it back a couple of times let your mind drift and feel the feelings you had when you completed a set. and remember those feelings of how you were the best. Now get a rubber band and put on your wrist and read the story again and let your mind drift experience the rush.When the energy gets to maximum your wingman or woman flicks the rubber band. Each time do the same thing read the story and remember the feeling now just before the flick carm your breathing and think of otherways that you could use and obtain the same if not a better result…do this several times. Then just before you walk in your chosen venue snap the rubber band and rember that high and slow down your beathing and relax still letting the feelings run through you . Now go take on the world B.A.T.N.A. Best alternative to a negotiated agreement, this is used more commonly in bussiness deals but works very effectively in playing the game. It is the developement of variable alternatives where your initial goal is but only one. It is used as leverage for it gives you the ability to just walk away, that can be used to produce a fear of loss in your target and if timed right (on a high) it creates a situation where she will now want to follow and be with you to regain that conection or want more….Catch and release, if you have ever gone fishing and started catching fish that you had to throw back. yet as soon as it hits the water you catch another again and again like all of the sudden its the same fish time after time . Well this gave me the catch and release - to leave them on a high and go do something else. They will want to get back into that feeling and willing to break their comfort zone to do it ..The same thing that pushes us to improve ourselves. then after a while when she walks up to the bar for a drink or even walks passed you. Talk to her again in a low voice and build the energy again and as soon as you hit the high or start getting comfortable cut her off.
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