The world is full of many things we dont understand....but one of the biggest things we do not understand is why when we meet a lovely looking girl do we soon discover that she is nothing like her exterior would have us believe. Why do we meet women who are beautiful on the outside, but not on the inside.
Lets imagine for a moment that you are royalty. You were born into a royal family and your entire life you were treated with respect by everyone you met. So if you were treated well by everyone you met throughout your whole life...you would probably not feel the need to change much about yourself because well....it wouldnt make a difference! This is what it is like for a good looking girl. She is treated amazing by everyone so she does not feel the need to change herself. Most good looking girls focus less on perfecting their people skills because people like them anyway so they dont need to.
But sometimes when you find a good looking girl who also has a great personality, it is because she is someone who maybe got better looking later in her life. She developed herself as a person when she was younger. This is one of the rare treats we love.....its hard to find. A good way to find this out is to screen for it early....When you meet a great looking girl ask her what high school was like for her, see if you can find her geeky old coming out. If you do....GRAB ONTO HER BECAUSE GUYS....YOU GOT YOURSELF THE GEM OF ALL WOMEN.
A great way for you guys to see if this is true is to go and speak to alot of fat girls. Yes.....FAT GIRLS!!! mmmmm fat. Simply because girls who were fat from an early age tend to focus on developing their personality so that they will gain friends and generally be happy. You will even find girls who had no care for anyone when they were good looking, to suddenly be really kind and genuine when they were fat.
What most people need to realise about the world is that....how people treat us will often define who we are. The average person is victim to their experiences. We are unconscious. But its not a bad thing......if who we are is based on our experiences....then all you need to do is make sure you get into good experiences. Simple!
Ok so......the reason why good looking girls dont always have the best personalities is because of how people have treated them. Its the same reason why people you know who suddenly get famous turn to a completely different person. Your experiences reshape your beliefs and personality.
So next time you see a good looking girl, tell her the fat women inside of her is BURSTING to get out!! :)
Sam Ben-David
www.howtochangelifenow.com
-iChange UK Dating Mentor
-PUA Aristocracy Rep
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