Wingman Game
This article is an excerpt from "A Crash Course in Seduction" by The Inner Circle.
DLaw is the author of this article.
l've Got You Under My Wing
Before we get down to business, put on your thinking caps for a moment. Remember the last time that you went out with a wingman to “pick up some ladies?" If you are like most men, the memory is most likely one you wish you could forget. The concept of wingman game is not a new one, but few people know how to successfully operate with a wingman, resulting in most attempts at gaming as a team being in vain.
Having a wingman can be an invaluable tool in order to help isolate targets, create attraction and show social value, but a wing can also be a cause of failure if not used correctly. By integrating the following rules and techniques into your own wingman game, you can avoid the fatal blunders that other men have been making for years and still are.
If you want to fly, you’ll need wings
Choosing a wingman is the first step to wing game and its importance is often overlooked. Picking the wrong man, or even woman, can sink your chances of success before you even begin.
• Choose someone that you can have fun with. Whether you know it or not, fun equates to success.
• Your wing must be well groomed, first impressions are lasting impressions. HIS appearance can either make YOU look better or worse.
• Communication is required. Choose a wing that you can share that special chemistry and communication with.
• For all practical purposes, no AFCs allowed. The more game your wing has, the better. Ultimately, wingman game goes both ways, so both players should get what they want. Inside The New Breed, you can find out how to turn a total AFC into a useful wingman.
• Find a smooth talker who can hold a conversation. Conversation is key. If your wing lacks social skills then sets will always feel “dry” and “dull”
• If you choose to wing with a woman, make sure that she is attractive.
Breaking Down the Communication Barriers
Communication between you and your wing is the basis of wing game. In order to be one step ahead of the game, you need to know what your wingman is doing and what he is planning on doing next. Communication can take place in several different ways. Verbal cues, as well as non-verbal cues are both effective ways of relaying information. These “Wing Signals" are discussed in great detail in the The New Breed.
Any signal will work, but the idea is to keep them easy to use, easily recognizable and unmistakable to your wing. The best wingmen are constantly aware of the next move their partner will make and are ready to react accordingly.
Eye on the Prize
In wing sets, it is almost always advisable to open the set alone and have your wingman join into the set once it has hooked. Two men walking into a set often raises the woman's Anti Slut Defense (ASD) and other defenses to levels much higher than normal, not to mention the fact that two grown men approaching is simply threatening to most women. The person who opens the set has control of the set. When entering a set opened by your wing, make sure to identify his target, and NEVER steal your wing’s selected target. Discuss with your wingman, and develop a signal in order to telegraph to each other the selected target. The primary goal of a wingman is to help the other PUA get his target, then that favor will be returned when the next set is opened.
Make sure that you and your wing know which women is the target of interest (TOI). This must be clear and understood. On this one item, go into detail by describing the Target to the last detail. For example: '"By the bar with the red dress, black hair and nice legs. She has a cocktail in her hand now and is talking to a blond haired girl to her right." It is very easy for your wing to miss the correct target which can ruin your entire night if a dispute arises between the two of you because you think he stole your target intentionally.
Be very clear when “calling your shots”.
Instant Social Proof
Your wing is an instant Demonstration of High Value (DHV) in any setting. He is the coolest guy around, and that is why you are with him. This attitude is a huge display of Social Proof. You are with him, so obviously, you have something going for you as well. You need to display this to the set when your wing enters the set by way of the "Accomplishment Introduction". You are a team, your goal is to build one another up to reach new heights. When your wing enters the set, introduce him and build him up with your Accomplishment Intro.
Example Accomplishment Intro: After opening a set, The Player enters into the set.
DLaw: "Hey, you guys have to meet my friend. This is The Player. He is truly a legend. He started his own company online and everyday, he helps thousands of men learn how to meet women!
Obviously, you will use your own personal accomplishment introductions when introducing your wing to a set. Plan your intro beforehand and have it ready to use on any occasion. It's also a good idea to have more than one intro memorized. This will help to keep things feeling interesting for the both of you. Boredom can ultimately ruin a good time.
Things to Remember
• Your wing is always right. Don't go against your wing and agree with the target. Going against your wing shows an immediate lack of loyalty.
• Put all selfish thoughts aside, you are a team, so act like one.
• The PUA who opens the set has first choice in choosing a target.
• Build each other up. Together, you achieve results.
• If you want to fly, you need wings.
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