I was asked in the private forum about my style, what was the road I took and how it was...
Well it was awesome, here is the story:
Well my style is a mix of many stuff I had learned through my experience. I love Mystery Method because it is the method that really gives you a structure and it is a step by step guide. I created a lot of routines and a lot of adaptations for every stage of the m3 model, I became a real fan of cold reading, to the point I became a master, I created my own cold reading routines and lines, I create many games and many cold reading lines to create rapport. Then I read some David D, I found really interesting the psychology behind thingyy & Funny, I pushed myself. I studied every interaction, if I saw a guy telling a joke, I took mental notes of the expressions, the voice, etc... I found NLP interesting and I studied a lot of NLP patterns, I create my own patterns and routines based on the things I learned. Then I studied sex, lots and lots of books about sex, foreplay, kissing, intercourse, orgasm, female masturbation; I became obsessed in giving pleasure and learning how to give it.
I read some social dynamics, some stuff about other guys, new methods from some new PUAs and well almost three years in the community, I can say I really know a lot of stuff.
But then experience shows you more things... what works what don't, what works in your country, what works in your social level, you need to adapt all the material to your age, your skills, your situation, your friends, your targets, etc...
And then when you start going out and doing this stuff and you start to listen to women, there comes many moments that make you learn a lot...
You start understanding women, why they act the way they do, you become more sensitive to women reactions, you can tell what she is thinking by the look in her eyes. You become confident and the interesting thing about confidence is that it depends in you, it depends on your perception of the world, it depends on how you react, it is the way you think about yourself and how much you care about what others think, its about feeling good with yourself, is knowing what you are and what you don't.
Confidence is knowing what you are and what you want.
You will get rejected millions of times, and even if you become the PUA #1 you will get rejected.
You start internalizing the stuff, you understand why gurus tell you to say this and that, and if you understand the why then you don't need the routines, because you know what you have to convey to your target.
Slowly you will change yourself to become complete in the aspects in your life, because you know that the more you feel comfortable with yourself, the more you will attract girls, the more you know yourself and what you want, more women will be around you, just because you are one of the few persons that know what they are and what they want, people don't know what they want, they don't know what they like, they don't know anything.
This gentlemen is the process of knowing YOU... how do you expect to know anyone and find your soul mate if you don't know you.
And then you go into this level in which you know what is important. I started wanting to sleep with all women in the world, to find out that well that isn't what I really want... I do want women in my life, but only the specific ones, the ones that give me this connections, this sparks, this shivers, that make life so great, this girls that make sex a connection, a mixture of body, mind and soul...
XFMAN @ www.thepualife.com/
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