After sometime (a few weeks) of minimal sucess (a few makeouts and a case on oneitis) im back.
I realised my main problem was enetering a venue with too many expectations. I would enter thinking of openers, gambits, techniques...basically over analyzing, and therefore give (despite all) the impression that I need people approval.
Went ou last night realising what ive been doing wrong. I enetered with the goal (from the badboy lifestyle "make girls happy"). Thats all I had in mind, just chill make poeple I come accorss happy. My social value went up sooooo much. I scored myself a job as doorman at the bar from lastnight. This helped sooo much, talk to much more people and it gave me somthing to do so I wasnet constantly gaming.
I think esspeically when picking up and basically being social with everyone minimal skills is required. I hardley used routines etc. I was somehow naturally attractive, just using some push pull and becuase I was social with everyone I was NOT needy or too much (major problem in the last few weeks).
Getting close to girls phsycial or just talking became so easy. I dont know weather it was social anxitey decreasing or my social value increasing. Basically pick up became about ten times more natural and thus more fun (a problem I had before).
I got a ( belive solid) number close off a girl who was super into me (a 7). Felt so much better esspcially when I saw my number in her phone with a picture of her and boyfriend kissing as the background
. My first number close of a girl with a boyfriend:). I didnt want to escalte into a kiss close (which she wouldve accepted), in my case that has never resulted into a second meeting, I built rapport instead (whilst flirting).
Just an idea, be social with EVERYONE. A concept I learned about before but I know I actually grasped it. When working in a place which forces you to, it helps.
This night was my saviour (in terms of game). I was on the verge of quiting the whole night game thing, but i learned from my mistake. Im out of this sticky piont!
P.S check out my new website http://www.pua-savil.com (With special thanks to Dulce for that)
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