Yup, been a while since my last FR. Went out alone last night which for some reason are the nights when the most newest things happen. Either way it was somewhat of a different crowd than what I was used to. Usually Im at parties where alot of people know each other (college or student parties). This time it were more locals my age who arent in the university but do some other stuff.
Heres what I noticed, it was fucking easy to open. Dont ask me why, i hadent shaved for days, i looked (and still do) somehwat scruffy. All the hot chicks were willing to talk 8s 9s and 10s. There was even a 9 who had her back to me, with a simple tap on the shoulder she turned all the way around, ignored her friends, her body language was completly focused on me, and before i finished my second word she was already giving me IOI's (i think she was crazy bout her hair:P).
Another thing i noticed, not all but more than usual the amount of girls who were shy, even some whowere freaking hot. I found myself using routines and gambits quite a bit.
But lets get to the girls I opened, to be honest I opened and hit on too many to write about (sounds cocky i know). Let me talk about a woman player I met. I would say she was a 8.5 but not consider herself that, she was somewhat shy (at least thats what i saw).
I didnt use a canned opener. I really did think i knew her from somewhere, so i used that somewhat overused opener. I really did think i went to highschool with her, i walked away in confusion but started a conversation later on. Talked for a but, exchanged some light kino its somthing different im trying to learn to not move things too far.
It happened last thursday i was flirting with another HB 8.5 aswell (the quality of girls im notcing these days is alot higher, in the looks department atleast) and yeah she licked my face ...TWICE (still deciding if thats weird or hot). Either way back to the piont, the number she gave me was quite flakey becuase i thought maybe Im a bit too flirty or using too much banter.
So back to the HB from last night. We had a chat, ran the cube she was into me. But like i said i flirt with everyone now lightly to spread my efforts for a greater cuase :P. Cutting the crap i went to the smoking area knowing she was into me. While i was working a group of other girls (who were also into me), the HB came into the smoking area to say "im going", and she just stood there. So me thinking I was using my name got her closer exchanged numbers gave a hug and said goodbye. I thought that was low key.
I even texted her a sweet text message an hour later or so, so she would think about me before she slept (it was a tip in the forums here, forgot where). I texted "nice meeting you. Il c u around sometime". Yes no banter no funny lines, something alot different i thought i should try from the lesson I learned from the facelicking girl and many others with thier non solid numbers.
Anfd what was different, she texted back almost immediatly saying "nice meeting you too. I hope I'll see you some time soon x" (I just noticed how perfect her grammer is compared to my text). But back to the piont, this gave me a feeling that this was a solid number, and i was feeling content with my new ways of lower but still high energy hitting on girls.
But listen to what happend on my way home. I was biking home, and i saw this. That SAME HB making out with some other guy (no judging but he seemed nerdy too). I think she saw me passing by too. A number of things were going through my head, first of all, i was doubting the solidness, secondly maybe when she was saying "bye" maybe it meant, "do you want to come with?".
But my third thought, Damn, shes doing what Im supposed to be doing. Shes a player. Shes making out with some guy while texting another one she just met. Im supposed to be in her shoes, but then kissing a girl not a nerdy guy and another hot chick should be texting me.
Im so lost on how to keep things going. I shouldve gone for more numbers, honestly dont why i didnt, maybe its becuase other than most girls looks they didnt interest me. Seems like just an excuss I actually do think its one. I dont have a real reason. All i can say is I cant wait for the PUA workshop Im going to next saturday.
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P.S apprently its a new thing for girls to pickup guys... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlosfDIBwgA
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