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Old 09-17-2009
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Default Official list of openers...

I see so much on openers here I figured we should make an official thread.

Rules:

1) Opener must be field tested at least 5 times.

2) Internet doesn't count

3) Canny material ok, just as long as you personnally field tested.

4) No untested material or thinking out-loud here.

Allright, so contribute your best material and let's try to get a big database going when guys are looking for openers to sarge with.
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Old 09-17-2009
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I'll go first, this is a little canny I posted it before but this is truly my favorite line with it comes to "routines", but I forget where i heard it. It's an opinion opener but I don't usually do that whole "can i get your opinion, i can only stay a second" routine before going in. Instead i usually just walk right into them like I was talking to my friends or something.

PUA: Hey guys, my buddy johnny over there just got this girls number here a few minutes go....(pause.. point over in the crowd in the general direction where you boys are at).. so we were doing that debate of how long you wait before calling a girl right after you get her number...

HB: (usually interupts) 2 days/1 day/ wait a week...blah blah

PUA: Well get this he throws a curve ball saying he always sends a text message... i was **shocked**, i don't even know what to think about that? have you heard of this?

HB: {{omg that sooo gay.. what a cop out}} {{oh yeah thats much better, i hate getting creepy phone calls}} {{i love texting}}}

debate and discuss the merits of texting versus calling, but whatever the answer here is the girls usually begin debate eachother as well so i take the opportunity to find my target usually based on who's giving me better eye contact, give her a slight neg on her answer, agree with her friends, maybe go into an false time constraint, and cut the thread and wait for a wingman to come in and distract the obstacles. the key here really is to be quick on your toes and adapt to whatever answer they give, but not dwell on it and talk about texting for five minutes.

one of the reasons i like this opener is usually gets talking going back n forth very quickly. I absolutely hate having to go into long drawn out stories about spells or karma or something especially in a bar/club environment. It's also incongruent with my frame.

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Old 09-19-2009
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Approach with a smile:

River - so why aren't you/you guys smiling?

They'll try to qualify themselves and make excuses after that, then you can stack and transition how you please
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PUA: Jeez (sarcastic sad), Whats wrong your supposed to smile (happy) this place is better than fucking disney world *smirk* (sarcastic)
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Old 09-20-2009
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my fav opener...

If shes alone....
Savil: "Who are you?"
sexy hot girl: huh? / my name is sexy hot girl
Savil: Im savil...

Group version...
Savil: Who are you all?


YES THIS WORKs, don it tons of times...

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If you caught a girl getting a glimpse of you (at night time at a club or whatver)...

Savil aka the king:P :You cant look at me without saying "hello".


(most guys dont notice or respond when a girl is looking at them,, girls usually react very warmly).



(for daytime)

Savil: STOP! I saw you walking and i was like "wow", you got this wierd energy around you, i like it.

Girl: thanks.

Savil: I couldve let you walk by or would you do me the honours of going for a drink with me? (if you feel nervous, just say that you dont usually do this and say your a bit nervous).

girl: wow, yes sure (score!) / sorry got a bf/ i dont even know you

savil: lets go / thanks, i invite for a drink and im already a threat to your bf:P / im savil...

start a convo anywhere you can.....



same goes for these openers, THEY WORK, don them plently of times!

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Old 09-21-2009
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Savil, love the "already a threat to your bf" line
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"I'm not going to lie, I'm coming over here to flirt with you (guys)"
(field tested many times, either on a single or a 2 set)

"I think you'd feel like an idiot if you didn't come up and introduce yourself, so let me do the honors, hi, I'm ______"
(again, field tested on singles or a 2 set)

"hi"
(used this the most, you should be in state when using it so they pickup that you actually mean it)


(I credit Cajun for this opener):

pua - hey, do I look like a drug dealer?
hb - blah
pua - these 2 tall blond girls outside came up to me and said "heyyy, do you have any weed?" (this is where you escalate kino)
pua - when I said no, there were all pissed and said "ugh, FINE" and walked away!
hb - blah
pua - ok, my real question is this, have you ever had a guy come up to you, want something, and get mad because you didn't offer it to them?
hb - omg yes
pua - awesome, I know exactly how you feel, high five!
(this used to be my number one opener)
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Old 12-10-2009
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Quote:
Originally Posted by River00 View Post
"I'm not going to lie, I'm coming over here to flirt with you (guys)"
(field tested many times, either on a single or a 2 set)

"I think you'd feel like an idiot if you didn't come up and introduce yourself, so let me do the honors, hi, I'm ______"
(again, field tested on singles or a 2 set)

"hi"
(used this the most, you should be in state when using it so they pickup that you actually mean it)


(I credit Cajun for this opener):

pua - hey, do I look like a drug dealer?
hb - blah
pua - these 2 tall blond girls outside came up to me and said "heyyy, do you have any weed?" (this is where you escalate kino)
pua - when I said no, there were all pissed and said "ugh, FINE" and walked away!
hb - blah
pua - ok, my real question is this, have you ever had a guy come up to you, want something, and get mad because you didn't offer it to them?
hb - omg yes
pua - awesome, I know exactly how you feel, high five!
(this used to be my number one opener)
this one I like but with the wrong frame it will go terrible I feel.
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Apocalypse opener: (usually to be done towards the end of the night)

Hey how was your night?

Good...

Oh yeah, where you headed now?....


Just headin home..

(pause)... Want to head home with me?


Yes, it works. There is probably no other opener as field tested as this one. The key is to run the numbers and have no shame.
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