Openers!

[basketball10293]

Another good opener for a group of girls that usually gets conversations going is saying "you get engaged and move in with your fiance. Would you rather have him lose your engagement ring or your puppy?" This is good because the girls that say id rather him lose the puppy but still have the ring you can neg for being materialistic. Stack this opener with something to deal with the 'materialistic' girl and her clothing/accessories (too many piercings, necklaces, rings, bracelets, name brand clothing etc. proving she is materialistic) Most times you will have differences in groups of women. Hasn't been field tested enough for me to fully back it up, but feel free to use it and see where it gets you. Let me know how it works

[flip2010]

can someone tell me what the cube is?

Cheers

[Arrogant-One]

Originally Posted by Hitman

I like to open with a question about my own tattoos. I get to show her a piece of my body, demonstrate a little bad boy and get the ball rolling. I will say something like, "I just got this tattoo and I think the dude jacked it up. Does it look okay to you?" Then I tell them I am addicted to tatts, absolutely love them, do you have any... blah blah blah

I came up with a new one today. I noticed a pretty hot girl outside the pool hall smoking. I didn't say anything to her but went in with a mate of mine. Then, inside, i happened to notice here again So I went up to her, tapped her on the shoulder and asked her what brand of cigarettes she smokes. her answer was very easy to build a conversation on and in no time she was eating out of my hand - just like Bambi!

[Jaz]

There are so many people at this party, did YOU invite them all? (it sounds much better in estonian btw)

[Arrogant-One]

In terms of openners, generally with women you just met you want to make statements and avoid asking many questions.The exception are questions which you ask for screening purposes. These are tests which you make up for her to try to pass, unless your standards are really low and she passes simply because she looks good.Screening questions accomplish a few things. It shows you have distinguishing taste and it tells her that she will have to have more than just a great body to get with you and this puts her in the proper mindframe work hard to to garneryour affections.You can be direct or subtle. But either way they should be difficult even to the point where she can not answer. That is right - have her fail some test questions.The questions should require work on her part either because they require imagination, a sense of humor or just plain stretching her values to meet yours.Here is an example and follow up:"If you could spend your life doing one thing, what would it be?"

She will probably say something lame like become a doctor to help people. You follow up by telling her about your passion in life. You give her an example to try to live upto and demonstrate how well spoken and thoughtful, passionate about your own life you are.

Any questions?

[Intrigue]

Doesn't really work for night game, but around my college campus during the day this opens sets like 90% of the time. I thought of this one myself! ^.^

shoulder keno [[Keno]] My friend and I were having a debate and we couldn't resolve it [[Rooting]]. I don't have long so I need a quick opinion [[FTC]]. What makes the best peanut butter sandwich? [[Indirect Opener]] Creamy or chunky peanut butter? Grape, Stawberry, or Raspberry jelly? And don't you dare say you like Mint Jelly.[[Neg]]

If they say Strawberry I usually stack to the strawberry farmer routine.

[Suave]

Honestly I love the jealous girlfriend, simply perfect.
An under rated one I have been meaning to use is the maury povich one.

[Legacy]

theres a good list there, takethat, thanks man and yeah the jealous girlfriend opener is infamous.

[Totino]

This one is pretty situational, but I came up with it listening to a comedian.

This girl had one of those tattoos that was a word written in hangul. So I walked up to her said "Is that hangul? What's your tattoo say?"... She said "heart", so I said "Do you think it's cool for people in Korea to get tattoos of words in English?"


I got a giggle out of her and went from there. Kinda cheesy, but it got my foot in the door and led to a number close.

That's the first opener I've come up with myself, so if it sucks, sorry haha.

[Intrigue]

Actually, that's really good Totino! It's neutral, starts a conversation, and gets them to think. I'd try to change the wording a bit so you get more than a "Yes, no, maybe, dunno" out of them such as. Since it's situational, it will be more natural!

"What do you think people in [Land of that language] think when someone has a tattoo of something like that in English?"

But all around very nice! I'm glad it worked for you.