So you think you have a DLV story

[WolfyStyles]

Alright guys I thought of this the other day after talking with Jade and listening to some people tell me their DHV’s stories. I used to have a DHV story I thought was very powerful and one of the best it had everything, which I will mark in the story what they were went to be do. Overall though this story was a POS and worthless, more times it failed then worked. I have now figured out the reasons why. The answers will come in multiple posts as I highlight the errors. Then as I know Jade will chime in as I used this on our first introduction with each other. I will highlight how it is positive in this post)

You know that reminds me of the time I gave up everything to prove that love conquers all. (relationship oriented) I was about 20 at that time dating this absolutely wonderful woman (dating great woman) At the time she had a 1 year old daughter who I treated as if she was my own kid. (family man) After all you don’t have to be a biological father to be the dad. (family man) Well anyways I was a 320lb strongman and powerlifter at the time, and a big future in the sports.( DHV) Despite that I was very unhealthy. I wasn’t all muscle and had the cardio of a dead man. I mean shit I couldn’t walk 100 feet without needing to stop for air and I had a hard time tieing my own shoes without running out of air. damn I was strong as an ox. (DHV) My girlfriend at the time asked honey you know a strongman is no family man life can you give it up for us. I thought about it and said sure. (family man and future relationship oriented) I tossed away my dreams hopes and future for the love of my life and her daughter (same thing). A few months later she broke up with me for a few reasons, and well honestly that is one of the biggest regrets of my life, but well we live and learn don’t wont.

[WolfyStyles]

The reasons why it sucks.

Originally Posted by WolfyStyles

You know that reminds me of the time I gave up everything to prove that love conquers all. It shows I dont value my own future or life enough and have to give it up for someone I was about 20 at that time dating this absolutely wonderful woman This is good as it shows you date beautiful woman and think possitive of your exs. At the time she had a 1 year old daughter who I treated as if she was my own kid. This is a good thing as it shows your extreamly loving and caring After all you don’t have to be a biological father to be the dad. very powerful Well anyways I was a 320lb strongman and powerlifter at the time, and a big future in the sports. To much braging Despite that I was very unhealthy.Telling people your unhealthy isnt making you look human its making you look like shit I wasn’t all muscle and had the cardio of a dead man. I mean shit I couldn’t walk 100 feet without needing to stop for air and I had a hard time tieing my own shoes without running out of air. all things making you look terrible damn I was strong as an ox. braging My girlfriend at the time asked honey you know a strongman is no family man life can you give it up for us. I thought about it and said sure. giving up your hopes and dreams not good you need to have hopes and dreams I tossed away my dreams hopes and future for the love of my life and her daughter this makes you sound resentful. A few months later she broke up with me for a few reasons, and well honestly that is one of the biggest regrets of my life, but well we live and learn don’t wonthis proves your resentful.t.

see how my favorite DHV story was flawed. It was over bragging with very real DHV. I just looked like a cocky prick. It also made me appear like I was resentful of my past and my ex in addition making me look like I had no back bone