Persistance paying off
Hey guys,
This weekend an interesting weekend. I was going out working on being the best self I can be. I was having fun approching but getting blown out. I got a few numbers but thats not what this is about this is about the after party. I was there with a bunch of couples and just not careing about anything. Found out there is a girl there alone who is single. I start running game but she was just cold. I tried for a number got shot down. At this point I was a little down i wanted to get any close. I go for face book email anything... shot down.
I decided that i was going to see how far i can take this since i been shot down by her. I keep conversation going as I am playing on the computer. She comes over and askes if she can sit down and use the computer. All I say is yes and pull her on to my lap... she is in shock. Sitting there not really sure what to do. She sits for a minnute and talkes yet gets up and asks if she can sit in the chair... without me. I am getting down now but i still hold frame by doing something i learned from big win. Make them ask the correct way by saying please and thank you. I get up move to the couch.
She is just sitting there looking at me... I don't even look at her since I like the movie on tv. I figured out i was freezing her out naturally and she says if you want you can have the chair back it was comfy sitting on your lap. Of course I am ok. but in my mind i am like hell yeah it is on. WE sit there and she is talking to a few girls there I am talking to the guys yet i start doing hand holding techiques i learned from speer. I decieded that i need to Isolate and not escalte infront of everyone. She goes for a smoke and go with her to a car. It is cold out there and I don't smoke. I am stuck but keep the conversation going. I was running my hand through my newly shaved head and started talking about hair pulling how i missed it. THen i had to show her what i ment. Using kino imagry from speer. WE like sit but we are going back in. I got sexual tension going yet now i need to kiss close. I am running out of time people are going to bed. My mind is running on kiss closes yet i decied to just go for the kiss no routine or anything. With in seconds she is pulling me to a room and the rest is for me.
Point being is that persistance paid off even though she turned me down. If i would of given up i wouldn't of been with her. In addition the next day she number closes me. While I was talking to her later I joked that she turned me down a bunch of times... She said she never turned me down that she rembers. So it was all just a bunch of shit tests... What an awsome idea. Rejection is not rejection it is just a shit test. What a cool few lessons to learn this weekend.
Mastermind007
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